Marriage Conversation - Before you say i do !!!

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Hello Guys,

Wassup ?


Yesterday one of my childhood friend advised me to write a blog on "How to start a Marriage Conversation".That is why I am writing this blog for all those people who are going through this phase.

Arrange marriages are common in India. I have an arranged marriage (we prefer to say love marriage though) and before I met him, I had met 3 other guys and to be frank
Arranged marriage first conversation is kind of awkward. Like how can you suddenly start asking questions to some stranger? Ghosshhhhh :D




So,If you are planning to start a conversation and know about the person you want to marry then here are some tips for you.


Keep below points in mind-

- first you need to find out whether it is a genuine proposal or not (You will have to find it by yourself)

- Just be Yourself and do not try to impress anyone

- If you feeling shy or uncomfortable on talking over phone, start with text messages (It is always good to send message first)

- Try not to give too much information about you in your first conversation

- Checkout about him/her on LinkedIn, Facebook or any other social media site (By the way, our
generation does this thing first, hahaha)

- Ask him/her to meet at a place where you will feel comfortable

- Knowing a person in a few meetings is something which is very difficult whether he or she is from a matrimonial website or any other platform. So do not hurry and take your time to know about him/her better because people cannot fake their personality more than a specific time

- Talk about some special memory which is good to share with her/him

- You can ask about his/her lifestyle and values

- Follow not only your heart but also your brain

- It is good to get comfortable with each other but know your boundaries 

- You can ask him/her about his likes, dislikes, hobbies, music taste, favorite foods, his friends etc etc.

- Talk about your Flaws and ask his/her Flaws

- Do not make any physical conversations until and unless you are absolutely sure that you would like to take things forward with that person

- Give the other person space to ask you questions

- Don't fire the questions like you are in a job interview

- You can use your Observational skill

All the Best :)




Location: Germany

Comments

  1. herich27 May 2020 at 06:13

    Good

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  2. Rsonali27 May 2020 at 06:32

    good one

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  3. Pamper Yourself27 May 2020 at 06:33

    So glad you liked it sweetheart 💕☺️- thanks a ton

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  4. Bazooka Teaches27 May 2020 at 06:38

    Excellent. I guess this would be good advice!

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  5. nabeel maitla27 May 2020 at 06:41

    well written

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    Execllent

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  7. Kapil Tanwar27 May 2020 at 07:20

    Good work👍

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  9. NJ27 May 2020 at 07:47

    Nice one

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  10. Abbie27 May 2020 at 07:57

    Cut to the point. A very balanced advice with dash of humour. 😉

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  11. Harshit Bhadoria27 May 2020 at 08:46

    Very well written

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    Thanks for such a great article. ��

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